Have you heard the terms “cuckqueen” or “cuckold” and wonder what they mean? Perhaps you totally know what they mean, and you want tips on how to either be a cuck or a cuckqueen. We have the answer on how to take this type of casual sex practice to the next level.
The word “cuckold” is generally used to describe a husband who has an unfaithful wife. Sometimes, people use the term “cuck” to describe the guy and make fun of him for his wife’s infidelity.
However, these days, the terms have different meanings, and the words “cuckold” and “cuckqueen” are often used in a different way. Now, couples seek out other men or even other women to hook up with, and it’s a type of sexual fantasy that more and more people are getting interested in.
Essentially, a cuckold or a cuckqueen is someone who watches their spouse engage with another partner, but there are a number of variations, which I’ll explain later.
Where Did the Term “Cuckold” Come From?
The term “cuckold” comes from the actions that are associated with the cuckoo bird. These birds are known to lay their eggs in another bird’s nest. The male cuckoo doesn’t know that the female is doing this, and he wouldn’t know until the eggs hatch. Only then would he realize his bird wife’s unfaithfulness, as she will lay eggs elsewhere…and not with him.
Knowing this, we can see that the female cuckoo bird’s actions can be compared to a woman who has sex with a man other than her husband or boyfriend. It was first used in the 13th century, and often seen as a mocking or joking term, as it would be disgraceful for a man to have a wife cheating on him.
Over the years, however, it has become a term to describe the fetish of a man watching his girlfriend or wife having sex with another man, and in the process, enjoying the show. Of course, women can be cuckqueens, too, and watch her partner have sex with another woman…or even another man if that’s what they are into.
Sexual Pleasure and the Practice of Being a Cuckold or Cuckqueen
Most people see cuckolding as a part of BDSM. It is generally when two married people allow one partner to fuck another person. This is not like other sexual acts, like threesomes or swinging, where all parties involved participate in sex. In this case, the husband (cuckold) or the wife (cuckqueen) just watches their partner engage in sex with someone else…but they don’t actively participate.
All types of people enjoy cuckolding, and it doesn’t matter who you are. All sexual orientations can participate, and as long as its consensual, everyone can thoroughly enjoy it. Since it’s part of the BDSM practice, you might hear the following:
Submission and Cuckolding
Many see cuckolding as a submissive behavior. The guy watches the girl get pleasure from another man because he can’t pleasure her himself. This might be due to a small penis or because they can’t take things slowly and cum before she does every time. In this case, the man will allow his wife have a real life sex session with another man who can give her an amazing orgasm, even when he can’t do that for her.
Dominance and Cuckolding
Others see cuckolding as a dominant behavior. In this case, the man could be a dom, and he gets more pleasure out of seeing his wife get pounded by another guy, called a “bull.”
These open relationships are more common than you might think, and oftentimes the desires of the couple ultimately support a free way for the dominant male to control who his submissive wife can sleep with…and they may also both get satisfaction after the fact, as she may get punished by him for getting pleasure from another man.
Masochistic Cuckolding
Some also see cuckolding as a form of masochism, as it may involve mental humiliation. For instance, the man might be aware of the reality of his wife getting laid by someone else, and he enjoys feeling the humiliation, degradation, insecurity, and jealousy that he experiences as another guy makes his wife cum.
In this case, the husband is not forced to watch; instead, he is watching and likely aroused by this, though he will not join the act. Participation is not part of the cuckold experience.
Voyeuristic Cuckolding
As you can imagine from hearing stories about cuckolding, this is also considered a voyeuristic act, as the cuckold will get sexual pleasure from watching their spouse engaged in sex with another person.
With these sexual activities, it’s important that everyone involved has given consent and understands that they are part of this sexual act. Also, keep in mind that this can involve all types of sexual acts, including masturbation, anal, and other examples.
Is Cuckolding Better Than Casual Sex? Sleeping With Other Men or Other Women
Some people really love cuckolding and don’t see anything wrong with it. However, sometimes too much of a good thing can really be a bad thing.
For instance, if the wife is getting more pleasure, sexually, from sleeping with another man than she gets with her husband, it could be a problem if she starts getting feelings for him. This is why communication in these cases is often called for.
On the flip side, however, cuckolding can be very hot, and it helps couples explore different types of sex, even if they are unaware of the practice beforehand.
It doesn’t matter what you like — if your partner wants to be humiliated or you wanna watch them get pounded over the bed by another man – cuckolding can be a great idea for many couples, and even a healthy part of your sex life. Just make sure everyone is on board, and talk about any fears or other dynamics that may come up.
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